Monday, September 9, 2013
DAILY PORTION--THE BLESSING OF A HEALTHY LOVE
I like the quiet times, when I can feel the Lord pulling me to slow down, to come and sit with Him. To be filled with His wisdom, understanding, to be refreshed and renewed, to allow Healing to complete Her work...
This depth of Faith and Peace that I have entered, provides soothing, strengthening, loving, powerful contentment...where I am able to breath a Sigh of Relief.
As I sit with Him, His Spirit speaks to me, untangling thoughts and situations by adding understanding and clarity to me. Giving me connections for the pieces He already gave me and adding new pieces to hold onto.
God is a God concerned with Healthy relationships, connections, communication and Love. Having a healthy love relationship with ourselves enables us to have one with God and with every one else throughout our lives.
Love is all about communication. Healthy communication waters and feeds healthy love. There are physical attractions, and then there are mental attractions, and then there are heart and spirit attractions.....
Communication between two people is a Must!
Not just the fact that we talk--but it's about, What we talk about... the content.
When you find that you are more than physically attracted to another, then you have reached a mark of emotional maturity and growth and of Love that many never reach, because they are stuck at the lower level of only being physically attracted to a person. There is no real love in that.
I love what we (my life partner and I) have together--the life we are sharing, building and growing.
It's more than loving each other, its loving the life we are sharing.
That is really why many couples break up, not because they stop loving each other, but because they stop loving the life they are sharing together.
Or, one person stops loving the life they are sharing together and that pulls them apart. And If the one does not communicate this change to the other, and attempts to pretend, it will only get worse for both. Then the relationship is based on a lie and not love. The one stops investing into a shared love and focuses on building a new life for themselves without the other.
They stop investing into that and the relationship begins a different course that pulls them apart. They are not on one accord anymore concerning a shared love for the life they have together.
This also happens with all types of relationships. If the love for a shared life together is not fed Goodness and invested into, then it will die.
No matter what the relationship, Keep truthful, open, grace filled and loving communication flowing and love will stay in the middle of it, growing and maturing a healthy love relationship.
"And the glory and honor which You gave Me I have given them, that they may be one just as We are one." John 17:22
On feet of Faith & Peace Resting In His Peace & Faithfulness,
One Day At A Time By Radical Faith.
Isaiah 50:4 / Isaiah 52 / Jer 20:9-13 /Joshua 1:9 / Luke 6:38
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